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An affair hijacks your life.
Take it back.

Limbo ends the day you start the work on yourself.

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From the outside, your life still looks like it's working.

But on the inside, it's become suffocating and small.

Why? Because an affair strips your self-trust and parks you in limbo.

 

But you're here to take your life back, and more.

No more wasting more time circling and getting nowhere.

No more waiting for someone else to change for things to feel better.

No more losing your sanity for the illusion of control.

Whether you're the unfaithful, the affair partner, or the betrayed, you've come to the right place for that to change.

I'm Lauren LaRusso, thought leader in the infidelity space, licensed psychotherapist, author.​

15+ years expertise.16K+ people helped on all 3 sides of the affair triangle.

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A warm welcome, I'm Lauren. I'm here to help you do one massively important thing: free yourself from affair purgatory by knowing what you want and trusting yourself again to get it.
 

Because I intimately know every side of an affair, I know what gets each side stuck, what keeps them stuck, and what gets them out of it.

 

That's what makes everything I do here different.

 

I've seen it all, so let's cut through the noise. Here's the bottom-line truth nobody can avoid: What separates the people who stay stuck from the people who come out the other side certain, whole, and free is the courage and commitment to doing the work on, and inside, themselves. 

 

I know that's you at your core; you just need the right tools. Look no further.

FOR SPOUSES IN AN AFFAIR WHO WANT TO LIVE WHOLE AGAIN

The Decision-Making Method

Stop living split between your marriage and your affair. Decide with confidence, trust it for life.

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FOR AFFAIR PARTNERS READY TO BREAK FREE OF THE CYCLE

Finding Freedom

Reclaim your life from someone else's indecision.

FOR BETRAYED SPOUSES READY TO MAKE HEALING AN UNDERSTATEMENT

Survive to Thrive

Claim the only choice that's yours.

Transcend healing and thrive beyond their affair.

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WORK WITH US DIRECTLY

High-level work for the person who's ready to use this affair as the catalyst to reach their next level, with personalized, professional, and private guidance.

Kind words from a few of the thousands of people we've helped, who were once exactly where you are.

I finally found the strength to do the right thing, rather than float along in a double life. Thank you for helping me become strong and true to myself, and ultimately to my family.
— C.T., unfaithful spouse, worked The Decision-Making Method, private coaching
Working this program restored my hope for a full life again, made it a reality, and handed me my integrity back. What could be a greater gift?
— J.S., affair partner, worked Finding Freedom
I've chosen to stop leading a conflicted life, and my marriage is reborn. You speak the truth I always knew was locked inside my heart and mind.
— P.D., unfaithful spouse, worked The Decision-Making Method
You truly made a difference for me, and actually for my now ex-husband, as he gained insight from your content as well. Thank you for following your heart, because it helped this lost soul find her way back to herself.
— M.H., betrayed spouse, worked Survive to Thrive, private coaching client

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BEYOND INFIDELITY:
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The first book that helps people transform betrayal into a catalyst for unparalleled personal growth.

"I kept asking my therapist what I could do to get through those early days. Your book is it. It's a lifesaver for anyone drowning after discovering an affair."

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